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Developing a Christian Worldview – Class taught by Pastor Matt Nelson
Mentoring
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Talk Notes

Love Lies – God Wants Me to Be Happy
Sunday, May 22nd

 

James 1:2-5

2Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, 3because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. 4Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything. 5If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.

 

Ecclesiastes 2:24-26

24A person can do nothing better than to eat and drink and find satisfaction in their own toil. This too, I see, is from the hand of God, 25for without him, who can eat or find enjoyment? 26To the person who pleases him, God gives wisdom, knowledge and happiness, but to the sinner he gives the task of gathering and storing up wealth to hand it over to the one who pleases God. This too is meaningless, a chasing after the wind.

 

Ecclesiastes 2:11 

I said to myself, “Come on, let’s try pleasure. Let’s look for the ‘good things’ in life.” But I found that this, too, was meaningless.

The Pleasure Hunt – the attempt to find happiness and satisfaction in physical or sensual gratification. 

 

Ecclesiastes 2:2

Laughter is silly. What good does it do to seek pleasure?

 

Proverbs 17:22

A cheerful heart is good medicine…

 

Ecclesiastes 2:3

After much thought, I decided to cheer myself with wine. And while still seeking wisdom, I clutched at foolishness. In this way, I tried to experience the only happiness most people find during their brief life in this world.

 

Ecclesiastes 2:10

I denied myself nothing my eyes desired;

I refused my heart no pleasure.

 

Psalms 37:4

Take delight in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart. 

 

Measure Hunt:

When we measure happiness and satisfaction in terms of accomplishment or success. 

 

Ecclesiastes 2:4-7

I undertook great projects: I built houses for myself and planted vineyards. 5I made gardens and parks and planted all kinds of fruit trees in them. 6I made reservoirs to water groves of flourishing trees. 7I bought male and female slaves and had other slaves who were born in my house. I also owned more herds and flocks than anyone in Jerusalem before me.

 

The Treasure Hunt

The attempt to find happiness and satisfaction in material possessions. 

 

Ecclesiastes 2:8-9

I amassed silver and gold for myself, and the treasure of kings and provinces. I acquired male and female singers, and a harem as well—the delights of a man’s heart. 9I became greater by far than anyone in Jerusalem before me. In all this my wisdom stayed with me.

 

“You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the greatest and first commandment.”

 

Ecclesiastes 2:25

For without him, who can eat or find enjoyment?

 

Psalms 34:8 

Taste and see that the Lord is good; blessed is the one who takes refuge in him

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Followers of Jesus are called to become servants. We want to actively demonstrate self-sacrificial love by serving the people around us. It takes over 80 volunteers to sustain the weekly routines of City Church. We are a family, and like a family, we all pitch in.

Guest Services

To welcome, serve, inform, and spiritually encourage.

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Help set and reset the building after the gathering.

City Kids

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City Youth

Help with Wednesday night youth gatherings.

Worship

Musicians and singers to play with the band. Vocals, Instrumentalists, Sound techs.

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Help the audio and visual team set up, tear down, and run the gathering.

Growth Track

CONNECT | DINNER WITH THE STAFF

If you’re interested in learning more about City Church and partnering with us as we reach people for Jesus, we would like to personally invite you to join us for Dinner with the Staff. It’s a time to connect with our staff and hear the vision and heart behind our church. It’s only one hour long, it’s completely free, and we even provide childcare!

To RSVP for our next Dinner with the Staff event, visit our website.

DISCOVER | PATHWAY CLASS

Live out the gospel in community with others as we commit ourselves to becoming disciples and making disciples. Pathway is a 4-week class designed to help you discover and live out God’s unique mission for your life.

A new Pathway Class starts almost every month. The class is free, however there is a suggested donation of $25, which covers all your materials and helps provide grants to our Love Tulsa partners. Register here. 

GROW | MICRO CHURCH

Live out the gospel in community with others as we commit ourselves to becoming disciples and making disciples.

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MULTIPLY | CITY LEADERSHIP ACADEMY

CLA is a 5-month journey learning how to lead yourself and others to fulfill the Great Commission. CLA is offered twice per year for those who have already committed to serving, giving, & leading at City Church.

For inquiries on CLA, contact Pastor Jim Moss at info@citychurchtulsa.com

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Lent + Podcast

Lent/Fasting Information & Resources

What is Lent?
The 40 days leading up to Easter (not including Sundays), where a follower of Jesus gives themselves to prayer, fasting, self-examination, and repentance. It is a time where we focus on the cross and journey with Jesus to Jerusalem.
When is Lent?
It officially begins Wednesday, March 2nd (Ash Wednesday) and ends Thursday, April 14th (the day before Good Friday).
Why Lent? Why do we follow the Christian calendar?
As early as the mid 2nd century the early church begin reorienting their calendar around the saving events of the life of Jesus instead of the culture around them. Lent is a part of this Christian calendar along with Advent, Christmas, Epiphany, Holy Week, Easter, and Pentecost. Lent follows a biblical pattern throughout the Bible (Moses, Elijah, Jesus) of fasting for 40 days. Lent is a time to prepare our hearts and build anticipation for Holy Week and the resurrection of Easter. The goal is to let go of the things in our lives in order to give our attention to Christ in a special way. During this time we develop a deeper hunger for God, experience breakthroughs in certain areas of our lives, and establish new patterns and rhythms as we break old patterns and rhythms.
Can I break my fast on Sundays?
That is completely up to you. According to historical church tradition, Sundays are not counted during Lent because it is a day when the fast is broken (celebrated as mini-Easters or mini-celebrations along the Lent journey).
What do we do during Lent?
  • Fast – Fasting is a biblical and ancient spiritual practice that reveals our excessive attachment to things
  • Repent – Repentance is a regular returning to God with a humble and contrite heart
  • Pray – make time for intentional prayer, solitude, and space for God
  • Receive God’s forgiveness and extravagant love
What should you fast during Lent?
  • Anything that is out of balance, you may not have control over, or feel enslaved to
  • Something that represents a sacrifice for you
  • Eliminating something that would free up space for more focused attention on God and spiritual formation
  • Examples: Food (full, partial, or Daniel fast), social media, alcohol/caffeine/sugar, overwork, tv/movies, cell phone use, spending, anything you may be excessively attached to.
What are some examples of food fasts?
  • Full Fast: Drink only liquids (if you’ve never attempted a full fast don’t start here and be sure to consult a professional/physician before trying it)
  • Daniel Fast: Eat no meat, no sweets and no bread. Drink water and juice. Eat fruits and vegetables. (check out http://daniel-fast.com for more information)
  • 3-Day Intervals Fast: Full fast, Daniel fast, or give up at least one item of food in 3 day intervals
  • Sunrise to Sundown Fast: Fast during the day from sunup to sundown
  • Partial Fast: Examples include fasting for lunch or from 6am-3pm daily, or sunup to sundown, etc.
List of recommended Lent devotionals to:
Important Dates on the Lenten Journey:
  • March 2 – Ash Wednesday (the beginning of Lent)
    • Online services at 9am, noon, and 7pm
  • April 10 – Palm Sunday
  • April 14 – The official end of the Lent season
  • April 15 – Good Friday
    • Evening outdoor service at Camp Loughridge at 7pm (weather permitting)
  • April 17 – Easter Sunday
    • Three morning services at City Church – 8:30am – 10am – 11:30am

Baptism

Easter Sunday, April 17th

Love Tulsa Sunday

Love Tulsa Sunday
May 1st, 9am

Twice a year we cancel Sunday services to strategically BE THE GOSPEL all over our city. In the midst of uncertain times, this will be a an amazing weekend to serve our neighbors and show them the hope and love of Jesus Christ.

2022 Project List

River Parks Clean Up
We will be cleaning up trash along the east riverbank of the arkansas river between 11th and 31st street. If we happen to see any houseless Tulsans living in the area, we will do our best to provide them with resources, food, and offer to clean up their encampents of litter and debris. The riverbank is one of the most important parts of our rivers ecosystem and it is very neglected.

Hope Valley Houseless Neighbor Outreach
We’re serving a hot lunch and care packages to our unhoused neighbors in the Hope Valley (61st and Peoria) area. We’ll meet at the City Church parking lot and make handwritten cards and assemble care packages with essential items (toiletries, bandages, socks, bibles, etc). Then we’ll carpool to the Hope Valley, set up some tables with lunch options, and serve meals while we talk, pray, and make connections with folks.

Jenks East Elementary Outdoor Beautification
General outdoor work at this South Tulsa Title I school. We will be planting flowers, cleaning up trash, trimming hedges, power washing, and helping clean up/create a courtyard that houses a turtle habitat.

Phoenix District Block Party
We are throwing a neighborhood block party to promote unity and new connections in a historic north Tulsa district. We will partner with our sister church, Church of Eternal Love, to love on this neighborhood with free food, bounce houses, prizes, and more!   

Hoover Neighborhood Clean Up
City Church Volunteers & Hoover Neighbors are coming together to meet needs in the neighborhood. Neighbors have signed up requesting help with yard work & house work and garage work! Volunteers will have a picnic at Darlington Park afterwards.

Widow Home Clean Up and Meal
We are helping clean up the yard, rip up carpet, and make some freezer meals for a local widow.

Tulsa Hills Youth Ranch Horse Therapy Clean Up
THYR exists to bring healing to traumatized children and their caregivers through equine therapy. We will be helping with gardening, sprucing up the horse barn, and some fence repair if possible.

Safe Haven Group Home Visit
We are bringing lunch to a group home that houses at-risk teen girls in DHS. We will be having lunch with the girls and the staff, offering words of encouragement, and praying over them.

Cooper Elementary Garden Clean Up
We will be cleaning up a overgrown and neglected garden at a Title 1 East Tulsa school. We will clean up trash, power wash brick walk way and trim small trees in a courtyard that is home to two LARGE bunnies. Creating garden beds that can be kept free of bunnies and used to grow plants by students in the after school program.

North Tulsa Mowing Extravaganza
We will be doing some surprise neighborhood beautification through mowing and light tree trimming. The more lawnmowers we can get together, the better!

Hope Valley Block Party
Hope Valley is the neighborhood in which our new building is located; we want to throw a summer kick off ‘block party’ in our parking lot! Fun for all ages, with games, food, inflatables, and more for the whole family.

Letters of Encouragement to Jail Staff
We will be writing letters of encouragment and kindness to the Jail Staff at David L. Moss to let them know how much they are appreciated.

Spanish Encouragement Notes to Kids
We will be writing letters of encouragement in Spanish inside covers of children’s books for Spanish-speaking kids/families in East Tulsa to give to developmentally delayed Spanish speaking kids at their therapy appointments.